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dirtyandbeauty:

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gremlinkisser:

human-power:

if you are asexual, sex-repulsed or fearing, don’t enjoy sex or just complicated feelings around it…you DO NOT EVER owe your partner sex. If they guilt you, make you feel flawed, or go on about how hard it is being in a relationship with you, DUMP THEM. there is nothing wrong with you or your preferences. If your partner truly loves and respects you, they will respect your body and choices. Just because you are in a relationship you are Not obligated to give your body or owe anyone consent. That’s their problem, not yours

+100 to the above and srry for not making my own post but i do wanna point out this still applies if you enjoy sex or are even sexually attracted to said partner or want to Eventually Sometime have sex with them! you might have a myriad of seasons for why you don’t want to have sex with them, at all ever or in that moment, or maybe you just simply don’t want to. if you’re not feelin’ it, if you’re uncomfy, if it just doesn’t feel right, even if you were flirting and getting into foreplay prior and you suddenly feel like “oh god wait i don’t wanna do this”, you do NOT owe them anything and you have a right to stop at any time. a partner who truly loves and respects you, like op said, will understand and stop. if they don’t, they probably just want perks from your relationship, not to just be with you, and you should probably take a long hard look at your relationship and consider if it’s going to be a sustainable healthy one.

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bensllo:

*gets excited about the story i’m going to act out in my head before i fall asleep*

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